4 Pieces of Advice on How to Find Your Soulmate

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Healing: 7 Steps to Healing Broken Trust

Healing: 7 Steps to Healing Broken Trust.

The Page of Cups

The Page of Cups.

The Challenge of Soulmate Relationships

The Challenge of Soulmate Relationships.

What screws us up most in life

What screws us up most in life

“… is the picture in our heads of how it is supposed to be.”

This is so true. How often do you catch yourself doing exactly this!!?! Thinking about the things you wish you had done, the things you wish you owned, the things you feel you’ve missed out on and the way you wish your life was.

It’s so easy to focus on the ‘have not’s’. The perceived failings, the difference between where you are and where you wish you were. Many people spend their lives this way, imposing an abstract sense of failure upon themselves, that does nothing but stir up feelings of inadequacy and anxiety. What if we just stopped doing that to ourselves? Imagine how much better the quality of life would be if we learnt to focus on what was in front of us, rather than what we ‘wish’ was in front of us.

We all need to come back to the moment, to ‘now’ and let go of the reality we imagine, the past we miss, or the gaps we perceive between our ‘wants’ and ‘have’s.  Don’t wish your life away in this type of pattern… Focus on what you feel, what you sense, what you love right now, and spread your wings and soar.

Focus on how good ‘right now’ feels. Living in this exact moment, ‘now’ is profoundly liberating. Everything becomes possible again – pain recedes into another dimension, and opportunity presents. Try it, I promise you it will deliver you the deepest sense of well-being, the greatest relief from stress and the deepest sense of spiritual connection and gratitude for who you are and what you have been given.

Amber | www.intothesoul.com

The Wisdom of Albert Einstein

The Wisdom of Albert Einstein

The Wisdom of Albert Einstein - spirituality and profound success

be a man of value - einstein

einstein curiosity and value , make life worthwhile

Amber | http://www.intothesoul.com




Melt Down

Melt Down

As everyone who has them knows… Young children, from the get-go, are a leading cause of insanity in otherwise ‘stable’ (term used loosely) people. For those who identify; I give you Michael McIntyre.

Not a cure, not a how-to, and nothing preachy. The opposite of all the remedies, schools of discipline and every other piece of advice you’ve ever received. This is empathy and understanding and a reminder that it’s not just you …. so please watch, its hilarious. And, if you’ve seen it already, watch it again.

I watch this religiously on ‘bad’ days (and hang out with my friend alcohol). Any time child-induced heart palpitations rumble, or my brain starts melting – I’ve got it dialled.
This clip is in my phone, my playlists, the spoilt children’s iPad’s, and everywhere else I can save it to.

There’s something so comforting in knowing you’re not alone… I think?


Thanks (so many thanks) to Michael McIntyre

Amber | http://www.intothesoul.com

Great big sloppy kisses and a bit of Darwinism

Great big sloppy kisses and a bit of Darwinism

Great big sloppy kisses and a bit of Darwinism

“There is no fundamental difference between man and animals in their ability to feel pleasure and pain, happiness, and misery.”
– Charles Darwin

True beauty tends to be found in the simplest and most unaffected moments of our lives. There are many honourable and noteworthy characteristics to be observed within humankind. Specifically the desire (of most) to bond with and take care of those around us.

It is in the nature of our caring that the most genuine side of our selves is revealed. These are amongst the time’s when our spirit, ‘our inner self’, steps forth, and leads us. We, the earth-bound spirit learn as we are ‘guided’ through such experiences. This is how we come to know real compassion, love and empathy.

Caring for and seeking to love those who are around us is one of the most noteworthy and poignant characteristics of human beings and similarly of animal beings.

Look at this beautiful image. Two connecting in this captured moment as one. Hearts and souls recharged in a perfect and special moment of connection and feeling for one another.

Isn’t this what life is about? Don’t even try and tell me this isn’t love …. look at that face!! Love is love, whether its your mother, best friend, husband, dog , child or rabbit … Nothing is more special or affirming … and I have to say, that from what I can see, the animals are the ones who love the most easily and deeply. We have a lot to learn from these special friends.

Be kind to animals – they deserve every ounce of your compassion and kindness.

Amber | http://www.intothesoul.com

What kind of Asian are You?

What kind of Asian are You?

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Racism – The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability

So he said to me: “What kind of Asian are you?” And I said back

That’s a loaded question.

What kind of Asian do you EXPECT me to be?

Because any way you slice that egg roll,

I’m still pretty much whatever you want to see.

I’ve played many a Far East stereotype:

Awkward math genius,

Cold and calculated Kung-Fu expert,

Assistant to “Dr. Jones, you crazy!”

You want me to drive? How so?

I can give you:

Tokyo Drift, Jeremy Lin,

Mario Kart, Tiger Woods,

and Blinker left on for about half a mile

I am the foremost expert on all things Asian.

The Meiji era and the ban of the Samurai?


Confucianism versus Daoism? I’ll give it to you with no slant!

What’s the difference between Asian stereotype 1 and 2?


Let me tell you anything YOU want to know about my culture

Let me tell you in a Moolan-esque soliloquy

Of me staring in the mirror asking

Who IS that girl staring that I see?

Let me tell you about Jackie Chan

And Bruce Lee and how they are related

BY BLOOD to me

Let me tell you about being so marginalized

It’s to the point of “I really CAN’T believe that’s Asian!”

Let me tell you about derogatory terms

And origins of words such as chink and gook

Let me tell you about the struggle

Of Asian parents not knowing the language

So we ate pet food because it was cheaper

Let me tell you about the job of interpreter

When you’re still playing with LEGO blocks but

You’re English is already that much better than your guardians

Let me tell you about honor and dignity

Let me tell you about a society that projects us as nothing but the secondary role

And never the leading man.

Let me tell you all the things you don’t want to know.

Like how chink comes from the clanking of metal to railroads,

As the slaves built train tracks for, this country to be connected.

Like how the zipperhead down the street,

Is called that because of the way our heads split open when struck with assault weapons

Or how the Jeeps ran over and left marks across corpses

And someone clever thought that we were only good to unzip.

Like how every time you lump an Asian person into one culture

It is systematically making us assimilate

Into an America we thought was better than our war-torn home

And every time you confuse me with some other nationality

That I might share similar features to, it is stripping away my individuality

And I still feel the shame of being Asian

The heat and pious dedication of June 11th 1963

The envy of blonde hair and blue eyes.

And I still remember thinking where all the boys that looked like me on TV?

Were the broken words of my mother and father stage diving off my tongue?

The anger I felt when those kids thought I’d get them sick

And I still feel the ash of the incense

Burn my hands when I prayed for my family

And I still remember thinking my skin was what I was worth

And I still feel the ironwork of my bones grow stronger

With every train of thought that passes by

And I still feel pride

And I still feel heritage

And I still feel Chinese

And I still feel Vietnamese

And I still feel American

And I still feel

Amber | www.intothesoul.com

Liebster Nomination

Liebster Nomination

Liebster award nomination

Thankyou so much to Dreadlock Tarot who made me so happy yesterday by nominating me for the Liebster Award. Funny, how much it meant to me, big smiles all over my face. Thankyou for this Dreadlock Tarot http://dreadlocktarot.com/2014/02/24/liebster-blog-award/

And guys, check out her blog, its awesome, funny warm and engaging and special – just like she is, so have a look: http://dreadlocktarot.com was nominated for good reason, its warm, funny, engaging and special… just like her readings sound to be too!!

There are a few requirements for accepting the Leibster Award nomination, one of them is answering 10 questions posed to you by the nominator. Here are the questions I was asked, and my answers:

  1. Dinner party. 6 people living, dead or fictional. Go.
    Gandhi, John Lennon, Aleister Crowley, my Grandmother, Coco Chanel, Mother Theresa
  2. What is the one thing you have always wanted to do but are afraid to try?
    Sky diving – I just can’t find a compelling enough reason to do it. I should have taken the leap before having smurfs. (children)
  3. What is your favorite singer or band and your favorite song by them?
    Nick Cave, Ship Song – have to admit this changes regularly… possibly daily, probably before this gets posted, but it’s definitely my right now fave.
  4. If you could live in any country in any time period where or when would it be?
    The future, definitely, 9021 on Venus ?!! failing that, I’d go back to prehistoric times and be an amoeba, I’d like some stress-free living.
  5. If someone told you tomorrow was your last day, what are the top three things you would want to do?
    there’s only one thing … love, hold, kiss my beautiful family…. and then  get very, very high….
  6. Who has been the most influential person in your life
    Easy!! No one has changed or influenced me more than my children, and definitely child number 1 rocked my world most… so Abby, you have changed my life and influenced me more than anyone or anything else… and I doubt anyone will ever surpass the footprint you have laid on my life.
  7. If you could master or be an expert on one thing, what would it be?
    Ballerina, I’d love to be graceful and coordinated.
  8. If you could be any animal what animal would you be and why?
    A unicorn…. because they are so magical and beautiful, flying …. running…. magic, is there anything they can’t do?
  9. If you could have any job in the world and make a lot of money at it what job would it be?
    Idea making!! I’d love to be paid for my daydreams…
  10. What do you like best about yourself?
    I make great cake and I’m hilariously funny and entertaining (to myself), occasionally my 3 and 7-year-old think so too – the 9-year-old is well beyond my level of humor and just rolls big eyes at me, looks away and sighs.

My (in no specific order!!!) Nominations:

  1. http://newageybabble2.wordpress.com/
  2. http://voicesofspirit.wordpress.com/
  3. http://ashleynicole20.wordpress.com/
  4. http://thecreatorwritings.wordpress.com/
  5. http://blackmillennialmusings.wordpress.com

NB: if any of you have more than 200 followers, please spread the love around and pass this vote to your favourite (new) blogger!!

Dear nominees, thankyou for being so inspiring and letting us see the world through your eyes, your blogs are amazing… If you wish to accept this nomination, here are the rules you now need to follow:

  1. Thank the person who nominated you and post a link to their Liebster Award blog post.
  2. Answer the ten questions given to you by the person who nominated you. Bonus questions are optional.
  3. Nominate five to ten of your favorite blogs with fewer than 200 followers. Provide a link to each, and notify them of their nomination.
  4. List ten new questions for your nominees to answer. You may include more than ten questions, marked as bonus questions, but remember your nominees only need answer your first ten.
  5. Include the acceptance rules in your post, so your nominees know what to do.

Nominees – here are your 10 Questions:

  1. Why do you blog?
  2. When you think about being happy, what is the first image/thought that comes to your mind?
  3. What’s your favourite comedy – book or movie of all time?
  4. If you could be anyone for a day, who would you be?
  5. If you did morph into your favourite person (as above) and could spend 2 days being them, what would you do?
  6. Who is your favourite author?
  7. Which reality TV character do you like (or love-to-hate) the most?
  8. What conspiracy theory, if any, do you believe?
  9. Where are you going for your next holiday?
  10. What message do you wish you could share with the whole world?

Amber | www.intothesoul.com